THE BEAUTY OF LOVE

This another article by our psychic healer Anthony Vivero will be published on his column Vibes and Vision in Daily Tribune this May 31, 2010.
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When people see some things as good and beautiful, other things become ugly. Problems and solutions come together. Difficult and easy support each other. Before and after follow each other. Things will arise just let it come and don’t expect anything, only then everything will last forever.

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Too many people fall in love but very few are brave enough to face the beauty of it. This is because in order to reach the ecstasy of love, one must be ready to deal with the highs and lows of each individual, experience the good and bad times of a relationship, and savor the triumph in every trial that comes along. Most relationships fail because of the illusion of perfection, the expectation that everything will be perfect and smooth sailing.

Today on my column, I will give way to a very special letter that tells about the story of two people who experienced the true beauty of love. I will first post the letter then tell the story of their love.

It’s all happening too fast between us,
I still can’t believe the things we have discovered
But I can no longer wait to discover new things with you,
To explore new horizons and conquer every possible obstacles along the way.

It seems like everything is impossible
But here we are, hearts overflowing with love,
A love that no ordinary man can fathom,
A love that is bound to be judged and misjudged.

Together we will write our future
Though we can no longer erase our past for it has already been written,
Hand in hand we’ll deal with the horrors of our past
And face the unknown of our future.

We’re bound to meet one another since the beginning of time
To be in each other’s arms for all eternity.
Fate may have played with us,
But when two hearts, minds and souls are connected as one,
They will always find each other and be together no matter what.

The lines in the letter are quite simple yet very rich with emotions. The message was also clearly defined and simply put, it says everything about the true beauty of love. Only those involved and those who have experienced the same kind of love can truly understand the beauty of it.

Here we can see how strong the desire is to consummate love; the belief in the past and how they are destined to have a future together; the union of two individuals in its totality, body, mind and spirit -- a partnership that can only be found in a soul mate relationship.

This kind of love does not dwell on each other’s past that was spent separately but on the promise of a future together as one. It is when the people involved learn to accept each other’s past without reservations. It’s a kind of love that is not based on what other people will say or think but on how strongly you feel for each other. It is something that is not measured by the quantity of time spent together but by the quality of every moment spent with the one you love. It does not count the tears that were shed but the smiles that this love brings.

The purity of this kind of love is usually doubted by those who never experienced it or only sees it on the sideline. Those people will never believe that such a love really exists. This kind of love goes beyond human comprehension and understanding, and that is the reason why the people involved will be constantly judged and misjudged in the process.

The beauty of this kind of love lies on the changes that it brings. These changes may be for the better or for the worst, but it will surely bring changes on the present. Here we saw the overwhelming courage and strength, brought about by love, to face the adversities and uncertainties of the future, to accept and forgive the past that cannot be changed and to carry out decisions in the present that may affect the future. All problems seem to just fade away for what is important is how they will create the story of their future and how they will spend it even though people will usually see them and judge them based on their past and not what the future can promise. The boundless hope for the greatness of their love is tantamount to the greatness of eternal connection.

The beauty of love is when it is shared with someone you really love, regardless of any social, moral and religious laws, and ethics that set limitations to love freely. The beauty of love is when you give yourself more than what the other has offered. The true beauty of love is in loving someone as simply and freely as can be. It is important for all of us to remember that love only cares for the present, hopes for the future and forgives the past. Love conquers and is never lost in the process. Trials and challenges make the story of love all the more exciting. And finally, the only way to truly love someone is by loving them wholly for who they were, who they are and who they will be.

Any comment and suggestion can be forwarded to anthonyvivero@yahoo.com and to anthonyvivero@hotmail.com.