Sunday, April 19, 2009

How to live longer



First published in Daily Tribune under Anthony Vivero's Vibes and Vision dated March 2, 2009.

What will I do with all the money in this world if I don’t have a day to spend it in a healthy and happy manner? I am willing to give half of my money, all of my P60 million worth of bank deposits to anyone who can give me another leash in life!”

That was the statement of a dying man 10 years ago. Being a healer, I was approached by a friend who knew this man. I agreed to heal him and scheduled the date, but not to try my luck with the offer because with half of the treasure or without it, I would still find the best possible way to heal him. Sadly, that was his last statement. Soon I was given the information that he had passed on and I never got the chance to visit him.

He died with all the money and worldly treasures any mortal would wish for. He may have been very good in making money, but he wasn’t able to use it to buy even a single day for an extended life to enjoy and savor. It was rather too late. All the power of money can never replace a good and healthy life.

Health is indeed wealth, as the saying goes. But do we need to spend a fortune to be healthy? Not really. Here are some frugal ways to be able to live long and experience the happiness a healthy body brings to our life, a treasure only a fit body can bring.

Dos and Dont’s

1. Do not eat too much, especially fast food products. Do eat lots of fruits and vegetables as your alternatives. Eat boiled bananas or camote fruits as replacements for hamburgers or pizzas.

2. Do not drink soft drinks or instant juices too often. Do drink natural fruit juices, tea and chocolate or rice coffee.

3. Do not ride all the time. People who prefer to ride all the time end up in wheelchairs for the rest of their lives. Do use your feet more often, and you will be walking more distance in your entire life.

4. Do not eat just because it is time to do so. Noontime does not mean that it is lunch time and you “have” to eat. Do eat when your stomach starts feeling the hunger. Don’t let time dictate your needs, let you body do it for you.

5. Do not overwork yourself. Do have “power naps” when you feel tired.

6. Do not go to malls too often. Do spend more time in parks or near the seashores. These are nature walks and they are food for our body and senses.

7. Do not watch too much television. Do spend more time talking with friends and loved ones.

8. Do not get angry and stop shouting too often. Do laugh more and be happy as often as you can muster.

9. Do not ask God for everything that you need and want. Do thank God for anything that you have and currently possess.

10. Do not blame others for your problems and misfortunes. Do have faith that others may be able to help you with your problems, and thus have a better future ahead for you.

Healthy food to eat

1. Onion — A powerful cancer fighting food. Studies made by the American National Cancer Institute states that eating onions significantly lowers the risks of prostrate and esophageal cancers. An onion contains diallyl sulphide, which increases the body’s production of Glutathione S, which is a vital cancer-fighting enzyme. Raw or cooked, the potency remains the same.

2. Garlic — Known as the poor man’s antibiotic, it is scientifically and medically proven to treat leprosy, colds and flu, kill worms and parasites, lower fat level, prevent blood clotting, prevent high cholesterol, blood pressure and strokes. Eat one or two cloves a day. If you eat it raw, it will even prevent colon cancer, as long it is taken with your stomach full.

3. Saluyot/Corchorus/Jute — Almost considered as ordinary grass here in the Philippines, for Ilocanos the saluyot is a staple in their meals. The saluyot leaf is rich in beta-carotene, iron, calcium and Vitamin C. It contains a very good dose of the antioxidant tocopherol, equivalent to Vitamin E, that enables nutrients to be absorbed by the blood cells. For clear skin, eat saluyot! It was the source of health and beauty among the Egyptian royalties in the olden times — Cleopatra was said to have eaten saluyot to stay young and healthy.

4. Malunggay/Moringa — The best source for calcium, phosphorus, iron, potassium, protein and Vitamin C. The leaves and fruits are both edible. The bark and the tree are used as medicine (though the roots are poisonous and should never be eaten). This is the best vegetable for nursing mothers, and today it has been proven to be a “sex” plant that corrects or remedies erectile dysfunction, prolonging sexual activity for both male and female.

5. Ampalaya/Momordica Charantia/Bitter Gourd or Melon — Best for diabetic patients because it lowers the cholesterol, the ampalaya also contains agents to cure malaria. It helps correct stomach problems such as poor digestion, dyspepsia and constipation. The leaves and fruits are both edible, raw or cooked.

6. Labong/Bamboo Shoots — Rich in fiber and calcium. Blanch (pour boiling or very hot water) the shoots first before cooking, otherwise it may cause discomfort in the throat and stomach. Labong is also good when combined with other vegetables. Blend according to your taste and preference.

7. Camote/Sweet Potatoes —Rich in complex carbohydrates, fiber, beta carotene, Vitamin C and B6, iron, calcium and protein. The leaves and the roots are edible. The color varies, the darker the color the richer the content of its potency. It helps stabilize blood sugar and the red blood cells.

8. Tomato — Contains lycopene, a well-known antioxidant that prevents prostate and skin cancers. Whether eaten raw or cooked, the effect is the same. Eating more tomatoes would mean more healthy days ahead of you.

To be healthy means having the right attitude and doing what’s best for your mind and body. You need not spend a fortune on it. Eat the foods that will help you live longer and healthier. These are all easily available. Subscribe to a food regimen that is economically affordable and yet highly beneficial to your well-being. It is a discipline that will surely extend your life.

Comments and suggestions may be forwarded to anthonyvivero@yahoo.com and to anthonyvivero@hotmail.com.

Holy Week retreat



First published in Daily Tribune under Anthony Vivero's Vibes and Vision dated April 6, 2009.

Yes, it is vacation time, but the reason for this holiday is the observance of the Passion of Christ. There are so many things to contemplate, but many choose to spend it the way they want it — selfishly — and eventually lose the true meaning of the season.

Let us focus on the Seven Last Words of Jesus Christ. In connection with these words, let us do something spiritual in nature, wherever you may be, and let us all have a meaningful Holy Week.

HOLY MONDAY

“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” (Luke 23:34)

Imagine Christ asking for His Father’s forgiveness for the very same people who crucified Him, leading to His death. Focus on that scenario and focus on yourself. How many people have wronged you in the past that up to this day you have not forgiven and forgotten?

“I am just a man and not God.” Many angry people would say that forgiveness is solely God’s prerogative. What if God would not forgive your sins and misdeeds? Would you like it that way?

So, this Monday, especially when you are in your home provinces, take the opportunity to forgive those who have wronged you. Take the first move for reconciliation. You must start forgiving the people who wronged you, just as you want your misdeeds be forgiven by Christ.

Modern way of abstinence: Resist from watching television or listening to the radio.

HOLY TUESDAY

“This day thou shalt be with me in paradise.” (Luke 23:43)

This is a statement of assurance for those who humble themselves in front of the Lord. Knowing your sins and accepting the consequences of these misdeeds before asking God’s forgiveness is the proper way of talking to God. You must humbly state to the Lord how you have become righteous upon the realization of how wrong you were on committing these sins. Many people think they are so righteous and highly spiritual when they contribute to and participate in church or religious services and rituals. Unfortunately, it is just being like the other thief who only wants a miracle from God for his salvation without remorse. Know first thy sin and accept that it is wrong, like the good thief who humbled himself before God. This Tuesday, spend time for contemplation and prayer. Set a four-hour prayer with God; divide it into four sets of an hour each. If one can spend several hours in front of the computer, two hours in a movie and many more hours doing so many things, then it won’t be that hard to spend a little time to humble yourself in front of the Lord.

Modern way of abstinence: Read one or several books from the Bible.

HOLY WEDNESDAY or Spy Wednesday

“Woman, behold thy son, behold thy mother.” (John 19:26-27)

These are the word of a dying man, but the love and affection are intense, the selflessness undeniably felt. The desire to extend His life and work is there, but the circumstances forbid Him. The next best thing for Him to do under that situation is to entrust His mother to his dear friend.

Don’t wait for that moment when time is at its end. Spend time with your parents and children this Wednesday. Time will come when you really want to show and make them feel how much you love them, but the chances may be scarce and could even be difficult. Care for them and express it in the manner that they will understand, and do it this day.

Modern way of abstinence: Cook for your parents or your children.

MAUNDY THURSDAY

“I thirst.” (John 19:28)

We all know that God is thirsty, both for water and love of man. At that moment He made sure that everyone would take notice of His words. In these modern times, there are so many people who are not just thirsty and hungry for food, but for love and affection. Fasting today is good, and your extra food or cash allotted for the day can be given to those with less in life. This is one way of sharing to the thirsty and hungry. Thus, you have responded positively to Christ’s last words.

Modern way of abstinence: Fasting. Share a meal with the poor in your community.

GOOD FRIDAY

“My, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” (Mark 15:34; Matthew 27:46)

This is the moment when everything breaks loose, when everybody feels God is nowhere to be found. During times of trouble and ailment, we ask God, “Why us?” We feel that God has left and forsaken us. The truth is, He has a great plan for us, and it will all depend on our ability and capability. God knows Christ will deliver in spite of the pain and agony that He will endure. Always remember that God has a bigger and better plan for all of us.

Spend this Friday thanking God for everything that you have. Yes, including your ailment, sickness, problems, failures and all negative things that you endure. This is one way of telling you that you need God. Man is so easily carried away by success he forgets God. Now, pray to God, and thank Him. Be happy today that like Christ you have your own cross and you have God within these problems. Believe that in the end, God will deliver you from all suffering.

Modern way of abstinence: No electronic gadgets — no I-pod, MP3, mobile phones!

BLACK SATURDAY

“It is finished.” (John 19:30)

This is actually the time to rest and spend time in silence, alone, for at least three hours anytime of the day. This is the time to listen to God’s messages to you. The messages may come in several ways, but for sure it will come. Many ask, “What’s the best time to pray?” It is debatable, but based on my experience, the best time to communicate with God is at 3 o’clock in the morning. Mystical time or not, for sure it is the time when everyone is asleep, and whoever is awake will feel and hear things that is not present during other hours.

Modern way of abstinence: Pray at 3 a.m.

EASTER SUNDAY

“Father unto thy hand I commend my spirit.” (Luke 23:46)

The safest place is home. Our comfort zone is the place of our father. When you are home, you feel the luxury of everything just by being with your true parents and loved ones. Rejoice if you are in your home with the people who are dear to you. But above all, you must feel fulfilled if you know that you are home with God. After all, Christ suffered and died for us. All we have to do is follow Christ’s way and the teaching: Love one another.

Give small tokens of gifts today to the ones you love like Christmas time, when you give gifts to show love. Isn’t the Resurrection from death the best time to share love as Christ did?

Modern Way of Abstinence: Give gifts or tokens to your loved ones.

The Holy Week is not just a vacation for our physical self, but a retreat for our spiritual being. One must tap his hidden desire to change his life. Follow the simple way of expressing true love and get out of the complicated things we do.

Please send comments and suggestions to anthonyvivero@yahoo.com and anthonyvivero@hotmail.com.